Calderdale Counselling 

I get a few clients who are diagnosed ADHD, or are undiagnosed but believe they have ADHD or someone close to them does. It not only...

It pleases me to tell you that it’s an absolute myth that older people are no longer interested in sex and intimacy. As a sex therapist...

Maybe we have learned a few life lessons during Covid 19 lockdown? Perhaps one of the better ones may be DELAYED GRATIFICATION as we’ve...

God only knows if this pandemic will be heaven or hell for you?  Hell for most I am guessing but there are silver linings to every bad...

If you’ve ever gone through a break up then you’ll know how incredibly painful it is; but in time, you can come out the other side having...

It’s a sad fact that many people come to me for help with their anxiety, each one of them going through similar experiences. If you...

If you don’t feel valued by your partner then you’re going to end up feeling hard done by. Feeling valued requires that someone shows...

Counselling many couples over the years, I realise that staying put in a long-term relationship is an ‘ideal’ not always achievable. We...

“You’re going mad, your memory is flawed, you’ve got it all wrong, I was only joking, you’re too sensitive” The cruel manipulation of...

Did that tempt you to read further? Well to be honest I didn’t really meet a ghost (shucks) but I did encounter something equally as...

You’ll see I put an exclamation mark at the end of that header.... must be serious stuff... So here goes- we are told this:- That...

Apparently today is the most miserable and depressing day of the year. Christmas is long gone and it’s still awhile to pay day. Only...

T’was a bast**d  year for me 2018. Felt like my body had gone wrong in a 1000 different ways. I was on first  name terms with the  docs...

At various times in our life we will need to re-invent ourselves whether we like it or not. The choice won’t be ours to make. After...

So, when Jan 2013 hit, I suffered one almighty massive burnout. Woke up one day, couldn’t stop crying, couldn’t drive, couldn’t function....

Perfectly decorated house, cosy, large home to hold the perfect happy family gathering, massive dining table the size of Lake Windermere-...

Whilst you’re swimming through rivers of s**t, it’s easy to feel hard done by. Yet we know that each experience in our life was totally...

Okay- do you find your mouth saying “YES” when your head is screaming “NO” Then read on, if you dare..... Over the years, I’ve counselled...

‘Why sometimes we’re inclined to stay in an unhealthy relationship for too long.’ It can be you’ve become accustomed to a lack of love,...